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What's your definition of a friend?
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“Pray and pray and pray, and if that doesn’t work, listen to what God is telling you to do!” -- random 5 year old.
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Eh idrc
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I put 6-12 but most of them are in middle school. Idk what happened, but I've felt really disconnected to most of my friends in high school. And I haven't been able to chat with my best best friend in a looong time, and I miss her
 Tips, yall? idk why this is happening. Kristy says people like me because I'm nice to them, but being nice doesn't really seem to cut it anymore. Is there such thing as "too nice"? I mean, if that's what's going wrong, I won't stop being nice, I just want to know what's amiss. I think I'm making new friends, though, but I still miss the ones I made last year... And it's like everyone complains about everything, are proud when they skip class or procrastinate, and are not supportive to other people. |
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melancholic/sanguine ~ infp 4 ~ rluan
<> <> <> old soul, free spirit, and moderate pluviophile "what's past is prologue." - william shakespeare
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A true friend is supportive, fun, understanding, loyal, and generally awesome. Hard to find, too.
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melancholic/sanguine ~ infp 4 ~ rluan
<> <> <> old soul, free spirit, and moderate pluviophile "what's past is prologue." - william shakespeare
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BookwormJo wrote:
What's your definition of a friend? Someone who you spend a lot of time with and have a great time with. |
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I make friends easily, and loose them easily as well *shrugs*.
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I’d say friends are people who value you, and make time for you, even when they’re busy.
They pray for you and support you. They’re willing to listen, and understand you. They aren’t bossy, but gentle. They’ll check up on you sometimes, and you won’t have to do all the talking. I think I have very high standards for friends.. And when I do find a friend, I’m always scared, of bothering them, or annoying them. |
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sci_geeek wrote:
I put 6-12 but most of them are in middle school. Idk what happened, but I've felt really disconnected to most of my friends in high school. And I haven't been able to chat with my best best friend in a looong time, and I miss her Tips, yall? idk why this is happening. Kristy says people like me because I'm nice to them, but being nice doesn't really seem to cut it anymore. Is there such thing as "too nice"? I mean, if that's what's going wrong, I won't stop being nice, I just want to know what's amiss. I think I'm making new friends, though, but I still miss the ones I made last year... And it's like everyone complains about everything, are proud when they skip class or procrastinate, and are not supportive to other people. Everyone has their problems that they need to solve. You cannot entirely blame them when they do not meet your moral standards. |
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JoyBaker wrote:
I’d say friends are people who value you, and make time for you, even when they’re busy. You do realize that that will cause you to bother or annoy them inadvertently. They pray for you and support you. They’re willing to listen, and understand you. They aren’t bossy, but gentle. They’ll check up on you sometimes, and you won’t have to do all the talking. I think I have very high standards for friends.. And when I do find a friend, I’m always scared, of bothering them, or annoying them. |
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I have lots of friends.
I make friends easily, that's probably why. But I'm still shy. Lol that rhymes. |
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Proverbs 3:5-6
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct your paths.
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Khriz Kool Katz wrote:
JoyBaker wrote:
Actually, I did not. How so? I’d say friends are people who value you, and make time for you, even when they’re busy. You do realize that that will cause you to bother or annoy them inadvertently.They pray for you and support you. They’re willing to listen, and understand you. They aren’t bossy, but gentle. They’ll check up on you sometimes, and you won’t have to do all the talking. I think I have very high standards for friends.. And when I do find a friend, I’m always scared, of bothering them, or annoying them. |
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glowtxt.com/ #Talentshowcasewriter Great is the LORD and most worthy of praise; his greatness no one can fathom. Psalm 145:3
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Khriz Kool Katz wrote:
sci_geeek wrote:
Sorry, I didn't mean to sound as though I was blaming them entirely. I forgot to say that I'm wondering if I'm too selfish or boring or something, thus repelling current or potential friends. I put 6-12 but most of them are in middle school. Idk what happened, but I've felt really disconnected to most of my friends in high school. And I haven't been able to chat with my best best friend in a looong time, and I miss her Tips, yall? idk why this is happening. Kristy says people like me because I'm nice to them, but being nice doesn't really seem to cut it anymore. Is there such thing as "too nice"? I mean, if that's what's going wrong, I won't stop being nice, I just want to know what's amiss. I think I'm making new friends, though, but I still miss the ones I made last year... And it's like everyone complains about everything, are proud when they skip class or procrastinate, and are not supportive to other people. Everyone has their problems that they need to solve. You cannot entirely blame them when they do not meet your moral standards. |
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<> <> <> old soul, free spirit, and moderate pluviophile "what's past is prologue." - william shakespeare
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sci_geeek wrote:
Khriz Kool Katz wrote:
Everyone does need to recognize that everyone has their own lives. The best thing anyone can do is give them their space, even it seems like you or someone else is being selfish or boring at times. sci_geeek wrote:
Sorry, I didn't mean to sound as though I was blaming them entirely. I forgot to say that I'm wondering if I'm too selfish or boring or something, thus repelling current or potential friends.I put 6-12 but most of them are in middle school. Idk what happened, but I've felt really disconnected to most of my friends in high school. And I haven't been able to chat with my best best friend in a looong time, and I miss her Tips, yall? idk why this is happening. Kristy says people like me because I'm nice to them, but being nice doesn't really seem to cut it anymore. Is there such thing as "too nice"? I mean, if that's what's going wrong, I won't stop being nice, I just want to know what's amiss. I think I'm making new friends, though, but I still miss the ones I made last year... And it's like everyone complains about everything, are proud when they skip class or procrastinate, and are not supportive to other people. Everyone has their problems that they need to solve. You cannot entirely blame them when they do not meet your moral standards. |
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JoyBaker wrote:
Khriz Kool Katz wrote:
To put it simply, you may not be giving them a lot of deserved space by being over-concerned. They will feel encroached, thus creating misunderstanding. JoyBaker wrote:
Actually, I did not. How so?I’d say friends are people who value you, and make time for you, even when they’re busy. You do realize that that will cause you to bother or annoy them inadvertently.They pray for you and support you. They’re willing to listen, and understand you. They aren’t bossy, but gentle. They’ll check up on you sometimes, and you won’t have to do all the talking. I think I have very high standards for friends.. And when I do find a friend, I’m always scared, of bothering them, or annoying them. |
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Khriz Kool Katz wrote:
JoyBaker wrote:
Interesting.. I think I’d give them more space, instead of less….. Khriz Kool Katz wrote:
To put it simply, you may not be giving them a lot of deserved space by being over-concerned. They will feel encroached, thus creating misunderstanding.JoyBaker wrote:
Actually, I did not. How so?I’d say friends are people who value you, and make time for you, even when they’re busy. You do realize that that will cause you to bother or annoy them inadvertently.They pray for you and support you. They’re willing to listen, and understand you. They aren’t bossy, but gentle. They’ll check up on you sometimes, and you won’t have to do all the talking. I think I have very high standards for friends.. And when I do find a friend, I’m always scared, of bothering them, or annoying them. |
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glowtxt.com/ #Talentshowcasewriter Great is the LORD and most worthy of praise; his greatness no one can fathom. Psalm 145:3
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If you were to create a job ad / job description searching for a friend, what would that look like?
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“Pray and pray and pray, and if that doesn’t work, listen to what God is telling you to do!” -- random 5 year old.
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BookwormJo wrote:
If you were to create a job ad / job description searching for a friend, what would that look like? You're fired. Simple. |
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Khriz Kool Katz wrote:
BookwormJo wrote:
This is actually very funny. If you were to create a job ad / job description searching for a friend, what would that look like? You're fired. Simple. |
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BookwormJo wrote:
If you were to create a job ad / job description searching for a friend, what would that look like? Friend needed! I am looking for a friend that falls into the following specifications: in my current grade (10th), positive, loves God, strives to do what is right, attentive, honest with tact, genuine, and kind. Would help if friend is funny, especially if witty. Contact sci_geeek at 5555-1234. |
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<> <> <> old soul, free spirit, and moderate pluviophile "what's past is prologue." - william shakespeare
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Khriz Kool Katz wrote:
BookwormJo wrote:
Do they get 2 weeks notice and compensation? If you were to create a job ad / job description searching for a friend, what would that look like? You're fired. Simple. |
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“Pray and pray and pray, and if that doesn’t work, listen to what God is telling you to do!” -- random 5 year old.
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BookwormJo wrote:
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No, they get a severance package filled with betrayal and emptiness. BookwormJo wrote:
Do they get 2 weeks notice and compensation?If you were to create a job ad / job description searching for a friend, what would that look like? You're fired. Simple. |
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Khriz Kool Katz wrote:
BookwormJo wrote:
Perhaps you should add a referral to an affordable therapist Khriz Kool Katz wrote:
No, they get a severance package filled with betrayal and emptiness.BookwormJo wrote:
Do they get 2 weeks notice and compensation?If you were to create a job ad / job description searching for a friend, what would that look like? You're fired. Simple. |
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“Pray and pray and pray, and if that doesn’t work, listen to what God is telling you to do!” -- random 5 year old.
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Khriz Kool Katz wrote:
BookwormJo wrote:
That's not very nice. Khriz Kool Katz wrote:
No, they get a severance package filled with betrayal and emptiness.BookwormJo wrote:
Do they get 2 weeks notice and compensation?If you were to create a job ad / job description searching for a friend, what would that look like? You're fired. Simple. |
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Proverbs 3:5-6
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct your paths.
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BookwormJo wrote:
Khriz Kool Katz wrote:
Eh that's too much BookwormJo wrote:
Perhaps you should add a referral to an affordable therapistKhriz Kool Katz wrote:
No, they get a severance package filled with betrayal and emptiness.BookwormJo wrote:
Do they get 2 weeks notice and compensation?If you were to create a job ad / job description searching for a friend, what would that look like? You're fired. Simple. |
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Chelsea F. wrote:
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I know. BookwormJo wrote:
That's very nice.Khriz Kool Katz wrote:
No, they get a severance package filled with betrayal and emptiness.BookwormJo wrote:
Do they get 2 weeks notice and compensation?If you were to create a job ad / job description searching for a friend, what would that look like? You're fired. Simple. |
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