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Poll: to kiss or not to kiss?

who cares? go ahead and do it! 135 53.6%
umm, yeah no 117 46.4%
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TOPIC: Kissing before marriage: What do you think?

Re: Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 9 years 3 months ago #31407

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I personally think that even if you say you aren't going to kiss before your married chances are you will anyway. I mean if you don't get married until your, let's say, 42, it's quite possible you of kissed someone special. I would just like to point out that this is my opinion and nobody else's that I know personally.
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Re: Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 8 years 10 months ago #34677

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I say it's okay to kiss before marriage, but you have to know where your limits are, because it could lead to a certain behaviour that God meant for after marriage
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Re: Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 8 years 10 months ago #35642

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Well, it's a kiss. That's nothing big. All my friends who date kiss.
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Re: Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 8 years 9 months ago #35913

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Its fine to kiss before marriage - just not have sexual intercourse before marriage.
1 Corinthians 7:2-3 says; But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. The husband should fulfil his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband.
Do you see how it says 'husband' and 'wife'.
So yeah...
That's my view.
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Re: Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 8 years 9 months ago #35914

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Godslittlegirl wrote:
i think kissing leads to awkwardness with the person that you kiss. trust me... i know from experience...unfortunantly :dry:

LOL!
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Re: Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 8 years 6 months ago #38379

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authorgirlEv wrote:
bush possum wrote:
I think its best to wait till marriage.If you can get a copy of the dvd, Pamela's Prayer.Its really good and will help you understand why it is best to wait. :side:

Yes, Pamela's Prayer is an excellent movie to put this into perspective.


okay, so i know that I'm resurrecting this topic from the dead but OH WELL!!!! I just wanted to answer in saying that my sister watched Pamela's Prayer and she said it was really good and I watched a little bit of it and I thought it was okay :cheer:
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Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 8 years 6 months ago #38638

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It's fine if your on a date or something just don't overdo it.
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Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 8 years 6 months ago #38691

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Depends on age. If your dating at like 12 years old then NO but like when you 16+ then yeah it okay. I mean, you gotta practice for the big day (Wedding Day) you don't wanna be a bad kisser. :P

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Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 8 years 6 months ago #38728

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it leads to other things
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Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 8 years 6 months ago #38743

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I put who cares but that's not really how I would say it.
I think if you really like or love the person, and can kiss without taking it to far and doing other things, it's ok. But for the most part, wait till marriage & after marriage. Yes, a little kiss won't hurt, but are you mature enough to control it and leave it at that?
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Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 8 years 6 months ago #38887

Unfourtunaly the Bible dosent cover whether kissing is bad or not. In conclusion it dosent matter what phisical connection you do or dont want because they are all controlable actions. Its the useing or accepting of the thought or the action for your own benift and not because its a symbol of a mutual love for you partner. If you kiss, hug, or do unspeakable things for your personal benift(Some actions more likely to be for personal benift than other such as the unspeakable),than what have you done to your self and your partner?
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Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 8 years 1 month ago #41453

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Im going to kiss before marrage.... I would never date a girl that would want to have her first kiss on our wedding day.
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Re: Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 8 years 1 month ago #41496

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CheekyCherry wrote:
Godslittlegirl wrote:
i think kissing leads to awkwardness with the person that you kiss. trust me... i know from experience...unfortunantly :dry:

LOL!
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ummm, not exactly :dry:
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Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 8 years 1 month ago #41549

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Your and my answer may change over the next few years but right now? Yeah, why not? I mean once it doesn't lead to anything further than that...I guess it's ok right? Well, that's my opinion.
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Re: Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 8 years 1 month ago #41629

Well i think that is more directed to couples (husbands and wives)....but what about the teenagers? :dry:
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Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 8 years 1 month ago #41630

Well, :unsure: I think that its not a really good idea because in some cases it tends to become a behavior, and just imagine you are dating a guy/girl and probably kiss...then break up so soon. Don't you think it may affect you in any way possible? :dry: but anyway everyone's different but i really really think its not quite right
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Re: Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 8 years 2 weeks ago #41895

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Agreed
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Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 8 years 2 weeks ago #41896

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I think the the same it is NOT OK
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Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 8 years 2 weeks ago #41922

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you will probably kiss someone before you get married it is ok. let God lead B)
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Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 8 years 2 weeks ago #41946

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Nope!
Three things will last forever --faith, hope, and love-- and the greatest of these is love. --1 Corinthians 13:13
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Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 8 years 1 week ago #42042

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WHAT!!! ANOTHER COMMENT WITH LOVE?????!!!!!!!! :woohoo: !!!!!!????? This is so crazy :S . But what I am really surprised about is that lots of guiders just say 'GO AHEAD AND DO IT' :angry: !! But I don't think you have to just go ahead and DO IT! I think that they should wait until after they are married and then DO IT!! But they can do what ever they want. They can date, have boyfriends if they are not 18 and kiss. I don't control they're life. But it would be better if everyone would listen to God's law. :( :(
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Re: Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 7 years 11 months ago #42224

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Yes this has nothing to do with this ik but i love your signature, did u get it off pinterest? i saw it on there
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Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 7 years 10 months ago #43349

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Ok. I heard in a sermon series that was at my church, that kissing is not a sin. But, if the kissing causes you to have lustful thoughts, that is when it becomes a sin. In my opinion, kissing is ok, but I'm not a big fan of PDA... Honestly though, I think that if you really like someone, you should show them that you love them... With all your clothes on. :silly:
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Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 7 years 10 months ago #43479

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Personally, I think maybe kissing on the cheek or forehead to show affection is ok but I think you should try to avoid kissing on the lips until your married or even if you do kiss on the lips, try to make it occasionally
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Re: Kissing before marriage: What do you think? 7 years 10 months ago #43596

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authorgirlEv wrote:
I believe that kissing before marriage is wrong. It can lead to other things. And I believe not kissing is part of staying pure. If you kiss someone, you give a piece of your heart to them that you can never get back. It's a bit different in movies because...well, it's the movies. But for me personally: I'm saving it for my wedding day.
yes you are so right God wants us to save that for are spouses I've heard so many adults say there so glad ythey waited so have paitence
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