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Flirting... ugh! 9 years 10 months ago #14370

I really like this guy, and my best friend definitely knows... problem is, she flirts with him constantly since there desks are next to each other :( After asking me out ( I didn't say yes, not quite ready to date) only a few short weeks before, he has already told her that he likes her and has moved on to her. Its so upsetting. Normal conversation is so oftentimes replaced by flirting. It gets annoying.

What are your guy's thoughts on flirting?
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Re: Flirting... ugh! 9 years 10 months ago #14589

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well i think flriting inlike charm, and i think some where in the bible it says charm is deceiving(Proverbs 26:25, look it up). so flirting isnt good cuz ur trying to make that person beleive u like them, whether u do or not.
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Re: Flirting... ugh! 9 years 10 months ago #15015

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you made a wise choice by not saying yes! so great job on recognizing that you're not ready!

honestly, even if he "moved on to her", and even if they start dating, it will probably not last and they will break up eventually because neither of them were ready either. so don't worry about that.

flirting... i think flirting is good. it's fun. flirting doesn't mean you are seriously interested in marrying anybody or anything close to that. it is just fun and a way for girls and guys to connect. how else would they communicate? flirting with lots of people teaches you a lot about them and what you like and don't like in them. it gets you ready for when you actually do start dating, whenever that will be.
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Re: Flirting... ugh! 9 years 10 months ago #15250

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flirting... i think flirting is good. it's fun. flirting doesn't mean you are seriously interested in marrying anybody or anything close to that. it is just fun and a way for girls and guys to connect. how else would they communicate? flirting with lots of people teaches you a lot about them and what you like and don't like in them. it gets you ready for when you actually do start dating, whenever that will be.

I don't think I really agree with that... it might be okay in the long run, but in the short term it can be not so good, for example, if someone is flirting with me, I may think they "like" me, or are into me or something, but in reality it is just flirting and they may not have any feelings for me at all. (that has happened to me before by the way) I think it makes more sense to try to get to know them as friends, rather than flirt.
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Re: Flirting... ugh! 9 years 10 months ago #15277

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i agree with fillylove. you flirt with someone to get there attention, not too get to know them. if you want to get to know somebody then become friends with them. flirting will only give the girl/guy the wrong idea(if ya know what i mean :blink: )
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Re: Flirting... ugh! 9 years 10 months ago #15293

well flirting could be an way to talk to your crush, or a way for someone to steal your chrush (if u know what i mean) so I try to avoid flirting with someone, espesially if my friend likes them. If your friend was flirting with someone who they know you like, I wouldn't really think they would be a real friend
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Re: Flirting... ugh! 9 years 10 months ago #15480

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i HATE IT when girls do that to me
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Re: Flirting... ugh! 9 years 10 months ago #15490

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don't flirt. just don't. talk like a friend, but don't flirt. :P
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Re: Flirting... ugh! 9 years 9 months ago #17481

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Myles80 wrote:
i HATE IT when girls do that to me


HAte 2 say this, people, bot Myles80 is my twin brother, and NO girls have flirted w/ him B4. But PLEEENTY have liked him tho... :)
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Re: Flirting... ugh! 2 years 5 months ago #98841

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Myles80 wrote:
Myles80 wrote:
i HATE IT when girls do that to me


HAte 2 say this, people, bot Myles80 is my twin brother, and NO girls have flirted w/ him B4. But PLEEENTY have liked him tho... :)
wut is going on here? the sibling hacked the brothers account?
I already have said enough.
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Re: Flirting... ugh! 2 years 5 months ago #98844

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Pyrrhic wrote:
Myles80 wrote:
Myles80 wrote:
i HATE IT when girls do that to me


HAte 2 say this, people, bot Myles80 is my twin brother, and NO girls have flirted w/ him B4. But PLEEENTY have liked him tho... :)
wut is going on here? the sibling hacked the brothers account?

idk

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Quirky wrote:
well i think flriting inlike charm, and i think some where in the bible it says charm is deceiving(Proverbs 26:25, look it up). so flirting isnt good cuz ur trying to make that person beleive u like them, whether u do or not.
I have never seen Quirky post in such bad spelling and grammar before. :whistle: :pinch:

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SGirven wrote:
Pyrrhic wrote:
Myles80 wrote:
Myles80 wrote:
i HATE IT when girls do that to me


HAte 2 say this, people, bot Myles80 is my twin brother, and NO girls have flirted w/ him B4. But PLEEENTY have liked him tho... :)
wut is going on here? the sibling hacked the brothers account?

idk

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I already have said enough.
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Re: Flirting... ugh! 2 years 5 months ago #98854

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SGirven wrote:
Quirky wrote:
well i think flriting inlike charm, and i think some where in the bible it says charm is deceiving(Proverbs 26:25, look it up). so flirting isnt good cuz ur trying to make that person beleive u like them, whether u do or not.
I have never seen Quirky post in such bad spelling and grammar before. :whistle: :pinch:
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Pyrrhic wrote:
SGirven wrote:
Pyrrhic wrote:
Myles80 wrote:
Myles80 wrote:
i HATE IT when girls do that to me


HAte 2 say this, people, bot Myles80 is my twin brother, and NO girls have flirted w/ him B4. But PLEEENTY have liked him tho... :)
wut is going on here? the sibling hacked the brothers account?

idk

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I mean, it is! It's really hard to explain, but it just is. Sorry if you are eating lunch.

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Re: Flirting... ugh! 2 years 5 months ago #98863

SGirven wrote:
Pyrrhic wrote:
Myles80 wrote:
Myles80 wrote:
i HATE IT when girls do that to me


HAte 2 say this, people, bot Myles80 is my twin brother, and NO girls have flirted w/ him B4. But PLEEENTY have liked him tho... :)
wut is going on here? the sibling hacked the brothers account?

idk

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I agree, obviously flirting in public can be annoying to the people around you, but it has its place.
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Flirting... ugh! 2 years 5 months ago #98866

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I personally find flirting annoying. To me, it makes the one flirting look desperate. Like, if you like me like that, let's be friends first!
Not that I've had it happen to me before, but still.
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Pyrrhic wrote:
SGirven wrote:
Pyrrhic wrote:
Myles80 wrote:
Myles80 wrote:
i HATE IT when girls do that to me


HAte 2 say this, people, bot Myles80 is my twin brother, and NO girls have flirted w/ him B4. But PLEEENTY have liked him tho... :)
wut is going on here? the sibling hacked the brothers account?

idk

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Rise of the dopplegangers
あきらめないで!
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Re: Flirting... ugh! 2 years 5 months ago #98871

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SGirven wrote:
Pyrrhic wrote:
SGirven wrote:
Pyrrhic wrote:
Myles80 wrote:
Myles80 wrote:
i HATE IT when girls do that to me


HAte 2 say this, people, bot Myles80 is my twin brother, and NO girls have flirted w/ him B4. But PLEEENTY have liked him tho... :)
wut is going on here? the sibling hacked the brothers account?

idk

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I mean, it is! It's really hard to explain, but it just is. Sorry if you are eating lunch.
why would it bother my lunch?
I already have said enough.
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Re: Flirting... ugh! 2 years 5 months ago #98880

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Pyrrhic wrote:
SGirven wrote:
Pyrrhic wrote:
SGirven wrote:
Pyrrhic wrote:
Myles80 wrote:
Myles80 wrote:
i HATE IT when girls do that to me


HAte 2 say this, people, bot Myles80 is my twin brother, and NO girls have flirted w/ him B4. But PLEEENTY have liked him tho... :)
wut is going on here? the sibling hacked the brothers account?

idk

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I mean, it is! It's really hard to explain, but it just is. Sorry if you are eating lunch.
why would it bother my lunch?

smh nvm

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Flirting... ugh! 1 year 10 months ago #99720

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Wait do the emojis work...
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Wait do the emojis work...

yeah they did

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Pyrrhic wrote:
SGirven wrote:
Pyrrhic wrote:
SGirven wrote:
Pyrrhic wrote:
Myles80 wrote:
Myles80 wrote:
i HATE IT when girls do that to me


HAte 2 say this, people, bot Myles80 is my twin brother, and NO girls have flirted w/ him B4. But PLEEENTY have liked him tho... :)
wut is going on here? the sibling hacked the brothers account?

idk

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I mean, it is! It's really hard to explain, but it just is. Sorry if you are eating lunch.
why would it bother my lunch?
TBH, 6 months ago, I would be thinking something totally different than what I think now, so just nvm

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SGirven wrote:
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Wait do the emojis work...

yeah they did
let’s goooo
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