The Big Picture

Sometimes it's hard to know what to think about entertainment. Some families choose not to have TV or other kinds of media at home so they can avoid potentially bad influences. Others don’t really set any guidelines for what they watch, play, and listen to. Whether we have it at home or not, entertainment is all around us. So what’s a Christian young person to do? 

God didn’t give us a rating system for entertainment (though it might have been handy!). Instead, He gave us heaven’s principles and installed a brain in each of us to help apply those principles to TV, computers, video games, and life in general on planet Earth. 

1. Get Real. “Whatever is true . . . think about such things” (Philippians 4:8). Little kids tend to think that what they see in media is a true reflection of life. But Guide-age young people are capable of thinking more maturely and knowing the difference between real and fake. Ask questions such as, “Is that an accurate consequence?” “Is this how relationships really work?” The more you use your mind, the less you will be fooled.

2. Be Smart. “Do not conform . . . to the pattern of this world” (Romans 12:2). Media are designed to influence you. Your age group is targeted by advertisers, moviemakers, TV producers, and game designers. They hope you will let them develop your opinions for you. You’re smarter than that! Instead of being passively influenced, engage your mind. Choose what’s true and right over what’s easy. 

3. Talk It Over. “Wisdom is supreme; therefore, get wisdom” (Proverbs 4:7). Sometimes TV shows, games, and movies bring up issues you aren’t sure about. Talk to your parents—they care enough to give you accurate information. 

4. Take Control. “Like a city whose walls are broken . . . is a man who lacks self-control” (Proverbs 25:28). If you feel addicted to entertainment, then you need to put limits in place. Set a timer to remind yourself when it’s time to end your video game session, or turn the TV off during a commercial when it’s easier to break away. Don’t let entertainment get in the way of real life. 

5. Know Yourself. “For the sinful nature desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the sinful nature” (Galatians 5:17). I know when entertainment has wiggled its way in between God and me, because things that should bother me don’t. If I watch or listen to something that hurts God (such as someone lying or using God’s name carelessly) and it doesn’t make me feel uncomfortable or disgusted, I know I need to fast from entertainment and spend more time with God. 

Right now, your parents probably make most of your entertainment decisions. But it won’t be that way forever—so start figuring out your own values based on your decision to be friends with God. Don’t let yourself be shaped by anything except what helps you grow into the person you were meant to be.